Monday, September 29, 2014

September 29, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week just absolutely flew by! I really don't know how it is Monday again and time to write all of you. Things were pretty good this week. We were able to talk to Alexis. He was just kind of depressed. I'm not really sure why because a professional soccer team that is pretty good down here just signed him to their farm team (20U). But he didn't show up to church and we haven't had any contact with him since Friday. But hopefully we can teach him and he will be excited to go to General Confrence. Speaking of General Conference, I'm SOOOOOOOO EXCITED for it!!! I'm beyond ready to hear the Prophet and the 12 Apostles speak and give us the direction that we need for the next 6 months. It has been way too long since April. I have been trying to prepare myself for the last week or so and I will continue to do so, so that I will be able to receive the direction and the answers that I need. I invite all of you to do the same as well. I can't really think of anything else because I'm so focused on General Conference. I'm looking forward to be able to share with you my thoughts and feelings on the talks next week. I love and miss you all! Have an absolutely awesome week!

With love,

Elder Jayson Welker

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Thursday, September 25, 2014

September 22, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was a little bit rougher than what I had hoped it would be. I thought because of the city we would be able to talk to more people and such, but I was wrong. It was basically the same as the year before in Licantén. Most people besides the members of the church were drinking so it wasn't worth much to go talk to them. My birthday was a pretty normal day in the mission, almost all day in the street haha. But it didn't bother me that much. Well we were supposed to baptize Alexis yesterday but he didn't show up to his baptismal interview or church so obviously he didn't get baptized. We're not really sure what happened because the day of the ward activity he seemed fine. He seemed to really enjoy himself but the next day he completely ignored us and wouldn't answer his phone. We just have to keep working with him and find out what happened. Like I said, this week was kinda rough. We didn't have too many lessons because people left to go visit family, touristic sites, etc. But yesterday during planning we set goals to contact the references we have received and to let our faith show through our work. We're going to work and pray extra hard this week and leave the rest to the Lord.

With love,

Elder Jayson Welker

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September 15, 2014

Hola Everyone

This last week was really enjoyable. I'm with Elder Mendoza (Mexico). We arrived at the mission home the same time I did. So I'm pretty sure that President won't let us die together. We were supposed to baptize a young man this last weekend but his mom had to work so he didn't want to do it. So he will be getting baptized this weekend. This week we will be celebrating the independence of Chile from Spain on the 18th. I'm excited for this week because most people don't have to work so it should be a great opportunity to find more people to teach. A lot of people drink a ton during this week but there are also a lot of people who don't. I'll be sure to send you pictures of the ward activity this week. Something really gratifying happened to me this week. I was able to see Carlos, Rosi, Miguel, Sebastian, Vaitiary, and Martina this week! They were the family that we found when I was with Elder Ramirez about 8 months ago. I was so overwhelmed to see them and see the small changes that they have made. I don't remember if I told you guys or not but Rosi got baptized about 8 weeks ago; Elder Mendoza actually baptized her. When I saw Rosi on Saturday at a stake activity, I just wanted to cry. I could see the difference in her countenance. I could see the happiness that she now has. I could see the difference that the Gospel of Jesus Christ has made in her life. It was such a special moment for me and it just strengthened my testimony of this great work that we are involved in. I may not have been able to attend her baptism or been the one to bapitze her, but that doesn't matter to me; being able to see her and know that she is firm in the gospel is more than enough for me. I know that this is the work of God and that this is the church of Jesus Christ. The gospel is for everyone and can change the life of every single person for the better. I love and miss you all! Have an awesome week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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September 8, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was kinda slow. We had very few lessons but we were a lot better with being diligent in looking for people. We really tried to talk to more people in the street, outside of their house, etc. As for investigators, we were really only able to meet with Willy. He didn't have a lot of time so we couldn't teach him what we wanted. But we watched a really cool video (https://www.lds.org/youth/video/because-of-him?lang=eng) that talks about Christ. He also came to church yesterday!! It was an absolute miracle in my eyes. He has told us so many times that he probably would never go but he showed up. A lot of people would say that we should have stopped teaching him a long time ago, but like I have said before, not everyone progresses at the same rate and we had felt that we needed to keep teaching him. He will get baptized one day, but I won't be here because we have changes tomorrow. I'm heading back down to Curicó. It looks like I will be finishing my mission there, seeing how I only have 2 changes left. Time sure has passed by quickly. I never understood how people could say that the mission flies by, but I really do understand now. I hope that I can finish my mission strong and help the Lord in whatever way I can. I love and miss you all! Have a great week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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September 1, 2014

Hola Everyone

This week was pretty decent. We were able to teach a few more lessons. I don't remember if I ever told you about a kid named Willy? But we have been teaching him since June. He was basically atheist before but now he is starting to believe in God. His progress is really slow but sure. We watched The Restoration with him and the thing that was most interesting to him was the Gold Plates. He wanted to know everything about them so we basically explained the Book of Mormon to him. He was really, really interested. We read Alma 32:21, 26-28 with him and he understood really well. He admitted that he hasn't been doing everything that he could to help the "seed" grow. But he committed to do his part. I really hope that he will receive his answer. Francisco didn't get baptized this last weekend because he still has a long ways to go (he is working and studying and literally has no time to meet with us besides Sunday at church). We have to talk to him about changing his baptismal date to sometime in October. Things are good here besides the weather. It is seriously bi-polar. It was really warm this last week but now it is freezing and raining. It has been raining hard since about 3 am this morning. I have been really studying the Atonement a lot lately. I still don't comprehend a lot of things but I feel like I have come to understand the Atonement just a little bit more. I don't have much time to explain this week but I will try next week. Love and miss you all! Have an awesome week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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August 25, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was pretty much the same as last week. We really struggled having lessons. It's so frustrating to set an appointment with someone and then when you show up they aren't there. That has kinda been the story of my mission so far; finding people but then not be able to find them again. Francisco has been working for about a month and it has been ridiculously hard to meet with him. He wants to get baptized but sometimes he doesn't show that desire because he doesn't come to church on Sunday; the only day that we can talk to him because of his schedule. But we did find a new inactive lady named Barbara and her two children who are not members. They are really, really receptive so hopefully we can start to make some headway with them. The daughter wanted to go to church yesterday but they didn't show up. Hopefully they will come this next week. We also taught a young man named Pablo on Tuesday. He is a Jehovah's Witness and he really liked the idea of having a prophet in our time to guide and help us know what God wants us to do. We have another appointment with him tomorrow. There was a small earthquake here on Saturday. It was the longest one that I have experienced as of yet. It started out pretty slow and so we thought "yeah it's a normal one" but it kept going and then got a lot stronger. So we were kinda confused with what we were going to do but then it stopped like 10 seconds later. I think it registered 6.2 or something like that. It was interesting for sure. Well that's about it for this week. I love and miss you all! Have an awesome week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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August 18, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week wasn't very good for numbers as we had very few lessons. We had an activity (Talent Show) on Saturday so we were trying to make sure everything was in order for that. The talent show was a huge success. Lots of members showed up and a few even brought friends who aren't members or who are less-active. As of right now Francisco still has his baptismal date for the 30th of this month, but we have to change it because he isn't ready. It's frustrating but not everyone learns or understands at the same pace. We couldn't meet with Juan this last week because they changed his work schedule and things got kinda complicated. Hopefully we can find him this week. My companion and I are looking "outside of the box" to find more people to teach. Doing contacts is pretty boring and it isn't very effective, so we are going to try some new things. That is basically all that happened this week. I know that things will start to pick up for us soon. I love and miss you all! Have a great week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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August 11, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was pretty normal. We kinda struggled with finding things to do because most of our appointments fell. Well, there isn't much to do here besides contact so that's what we did. It didn't really work for us during the week but yesterday something unexpected happened. An inactive member (who we didn't even know existed) brought his girlfriend to church. She is really, really interested in the church. I thought of a scripture "Ye cannot behold with your natural eyes, for the present time, the design of your God concerning those things which shall come hereafter..." (D&C 58:3). I think that as missionaries and as members we expect immediate results. And a lot of times, the Lord doesn't work in that way. He blesses us in His time, and in His way. The weeks just keep going by and I don't have a ton of time left. I just want to keep working hard and do the things that the Lord wants me to do. I just want to be "an instrument in the hands of God to bring some soul to repentance; and this is my [hope]." I love and miss you all so much! Have an awesome week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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This is a picture of Elder Harding (Highland) and I today. He goes home tomorrow.


August 4, 2014

Hola Everyone

This week was so much better! We were able to find 3 new investigators, which hasn't happened in a really long time. One of our investigators, Francisco, got really emotional during church yesterday because his son got presented (the mom is a member). He said he felt really good and we were able to change his baptismal date to the 30th of this month. The Stake Patriarch took us to an old friend of his named Juan Godoy. His son is now the Branch President in San Francisco de Mostazal, my old sector. Anyways, the Spirit was soooooooo strong during our lesson with him. This guy has had so many spiritual experiences it is almost unbelievable. He knows that the Book of Mormon is true, that the church is true, but for fear of leaving "the faith of his parents" he hasn't been baptized. But he committed to pray to know if he should get baptized. Feeling the Spirit is one of the coolest things ever. I'm not very good at recognizing it, but when I do recognize it, wow. For many of you, you may understand what I'm talking about. The Spirit is hard to explain. You have to experiement what it feels like to know what it really is and how it feels for you personally. I was reading a talk by Pres. Packer this last week titled "The Candle of the Lord" and he had an experience that I really enjoyed reading. He talks about how a man tried to tell him that he was basically crazy. I'm just going to cite it here.
"I sat on a plane next to a professed atheist who pressed his disbelief in God so urgently that I bore my testimony to him. “You are wrong,” I said, “there is a God. I know He lives!” He protested, “You don’t know. Nobody knows that! You can’t know it!” When I would not yield, the atheist, who was an attorney, asked perhaps the ultimate question on the subject of testimony. “All right,” he said in a sneering, condescending way, “you say you know. Tell me how you know.” When I attempted to answer, even though I held advanced academic degrees, I was helpless to communicate. Sometimes in your youth, you young missionaries are embarrassed when the cynic, the skeptic, treat you with contempt because you do not have ready answers for everything. Before such ridicule, some turn away in shame. (Remember the iron rod, the spacious building, and the mocking? See 1 Ne. 8:28.) When I used the words Spirit and witness, the atheist responded, “I don’t know what you are talking about.” The words prayer, discernment, and faith, were equally meaningless to him. “You see,” he said, “you don’t really know. If you did, you would be able to tell me how you know.” I felt, perhaps, that I had borne my testimony to him unwisely and was at a loss as to what to do. Then came the experience! Something came into my mind. And I mention here a statement of the Prophet Joseph Smith: “A person may profit by noticing the first intimation of the spirit of revelation; for instance, when you feel pure intelligence flowing into you, it may give you sudden strokes of ideas … and thus by learning the Spirit of God and understanding it, you may grow into the principle of revelation, until you become perfect in Christ Jesus.” (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, comp. Joseph Fielding Smith, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1977, p. 151.) Such an idea came into my mind and I said to the atheist, “Let me ask if you know what salt tastes like.” “Of course I do,” was his reply. “When did you taste salt last?” “I just had dinner on the plane.” “You just think you know what salt tastes like,” I said. He insisted, “I know what salt tastes like as well as I know anything. “If I gave you a cup of salt and a cup of sugar and let you taste them both, could you tell the salt from the sugar?” “Now you are getting juvenile,” was his reply. “Of course I could tell the difference. I know what salt tastes like. It is an everyday experience—I know it as well as I know anything.” “Then,” I said, “assuming that I have never tasted salt, explain to me just what it tastes like.” After some thought, he ventured, “Well-I-uh, it is not sweet and it is not sour.” “You’ve told me what it isn’t, not what it is.” After several attempts, of course, he could not do it. He could not convey, in words alone, so ordinary an experience as tasting salt. I bore testimony to him once again and said, “I know there is a God. You ridiculed that testimony and said that if I did know, I would be able to tell you exactly how I know. My friend, spiritually speaking, I have tasted salt. I am no more able to convey to you in words how this knowledge has come than you are to tell me what salt tastes like. But I say to you again, there is a God! He does live! And just because you don’t know, don’t try to tell me that I don’t know, for I do!”

I know that the experience was kind of long but I felt like I should share it. I'm going to attach it so that you can all read it. I hope that you enjoy it. That's about it for this week. I love and miss you all! Have an awesome week!

With love,

Elder Jayson Welker

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July 28, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was pretty normal. The ward is getting better with supporting us. We had a few of the brethren go out with us this week to do contacts and look for less-actives. I know it may not seem like much to some people but it is a huge step for the ward here. We are done with this change and my companion and I are going to be staying here. This next change is going to be a challenge for us. We are really struggling with finding people and I honestly think that the trend will continue. It has been like this my whole mission so I'm pretty used to it. I don't want anyone to think that I'm lazy or that I don't care; but I'm used to struggling even though I'm working hard. Obviously the Lord has other things in store for me than baptizing a thousand people like everyone wants to do. I like to think of the scripture in Alma 20:30 "And, as it happened, it was their lot to have fallen into the hands of a more hardened and a more stiffnecked people; therefore they would not hearken unto their words" I know that the Lord is in charge and that this is His work, not mine. His plan is perfect. It may not always be what we want, but it is always for the better. I am willing to "suffer" if it means that I will become who he wants me to be. I love and miss you all so much! I hope that this week is awesome for every single one of you!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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July 21, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was about the same as last week. We really didn't teach many lessons this week which was a bummer. We have really struggled finding people this change. Willy is a stud but a little lazy. He read the pamphlet about the Plan of Salvation with his girlfriend, who is a member, and then explained everything back to us. He said that he had prayed but didn't receive an answer. But as we talked to him and listened to him we realized that he hadn't prayed with real intent. So we explained to him what he could do in order to receive his answer. He said that he would pray again and do it for real this time. Well Zone Conference was pretty good. President Warne focused on how we can help investigators progress. And everything really came down to: praying, reading The Book of Mormon, and going to church. I know that seems pretty obvious but the way he explained it was different. And there is not enough time to tell you everything that he said. But he wants us to basically focus on reading the Book of Mormon and having spiritual experiences with the investigators with the BOM. And the next day I was reading in Preach my Gospel and I had a lightbulb moment. I read a quote from Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin. I had read it before but it had never quite had an impact on me; “Please do not take the Book of Mormon for granted. Pray for a vision of how the Book of Mormon can be used more effectively in your mission. I promise that as you do so, your mind will be enlightened with the direction that you should take." (Seminar for New Mission Presidents, 23 June 1999). I realized that I had never actually done that. So I made a commitment to do so. I hope that I will soon receive the help that I desperately need in order to help the Chilean people accept the gospel of Jesus Christ. That's about it for this week. I love and miss you all a ton! Have a great week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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p.s. This is a picture of me and a member from my sector in San Francisco


July 14, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was a really struggle. My companion has to spend a bunch of time in the dentist office because they are re-doing a bunch of stuff with his teeth so that has been something kinda difficult to accept; being there instead of outside in my sector. We weren't able to meet with Francisco this week. He didn't show up to the 2 appointments that we had with him but I'm sure that we will find him this week. We have been teaching a kid named Willy over the last change and a half. When I first got here he told us that he didn't really care about religion and didn't really want to do much. But as we have visited him occasionally, his countenance has changed and he shows just a little bit more interest. In fact, on Thursday we were talking to him about what happens after death and he made the comment that we would have to wait until we die to find out. We shared some experiences and bore our testimonies that he could know by praying with real intent to know. He looked at us for a second and then said, "I guess I'll have to try it out." I know that this may not seem like much to some people but for me, it means so much! His progress is slow but it is steady. Not everybody progresses at the same rate and this just proves it. We have Zone Conference tomorrow and I'm really excited for it. I love hearing what President Warne has to say. I know without a doubt that he is a man called of God to direct this mission. I love this work and I love being a missionary. I love and miss you all! Have a stupendous week!
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Elder Jayson Welker

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July 7, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was pretty normal. We kind of struggled but like I have always said that the tough moments only last a small moment and then the Lord blesses us. We started teaching the boyfriend of a member and he is really receptive and wants to make changes in his life. We are really focusing on making him understand that he needs to do it for himself and not for his girlfriend. We have had good support from the members with him so far, so that has been a plus. We are trying to brainstorm ideas on how to find. Contacting doesn't work and we don't usually get references so we are trying to think outside of the box and I think we have a few ideas that might work. I completed 19 months on Saturday and I was reflecting on how quickly this last month went. I hope that it doesn't get any faster because I'm not sure how well I will be able to handle it if it does. I love and miss you all! Have an awesome week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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June 30, 2014

Hola Everyone

Well this week was kind of crazy. Chile was pretty excited about the game against Brazil on Saturday and everyone was getting ready for it. We had to be in the house from noon to 6 pm on Saturday. When everyone started leaving their houses there were a lot of people crying and such. The way that they lost was heartbreaking. It was interesting to see how passionate they are about soccer. I keep telling everyone that they still have hope because the US team is still in the running. They all just laugh at me. But anyways, things are good here. It was kind of a slow week. We are still trying to work with the less-active list and find new investigators that way. But it still hasn't really worked for us quite yet. But things are already looking bright for this week. We have some appointments with some people who seem really, really interested so hopefully it works out for us. I just can't believe how fast time is going. Sometimes it feels like I'm in a dream and everytime that I "wake up" another week has passed. The investigators that we have had aren't really progressing which is really disappointing but I know that things will turn around soon. I love you all and hope that you have a great week!

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Elder Jayson Welker

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